Don’t Take Someone Else’s Demands Too Seriously

That we lead a busy, crazy and tight life, we already know that. After all, we have to deal with this every day. We have so much to decide, knowing the best way forward to achieve our goals. As time goes by, everything tends to happen, responsibilities and choices will adjust according to our maturity.

In childhood we have those who make the decisions for us, and that was so much more practical, wasn’t it? In adolescence, we start being charged for our first job, good grades at school, and along with that, the desire to reach adulthood so as not to have to give more satisfaction to anyone.

But then you become an adult and the weight gets even bigger

You realize that this is the phase in which you will have to give more satisfaction to others, that those who cover you will have the most.

And the demand comes from all sides : first you have to have the best education, have the best position and salary, buy the car of the year, be surrounded by good friends, take incredible trips very often, and then, without forgetting and not least, the demand to have a good lasting relationship, of course.

Who has never felt pressured to be asked about anything like that? It’s so much pressure that sometimes you don’t even know if you chose the right one, and fall into the bullshit of feeling fear and living anxious to conquer things and people that others say are good for you.

How many family parties have you attended just to hear: “What about sweethearts? ”. This phrase has already become more than a cliché. Events do not have to be the same for everyone, and they will never happen at the same time. Each person has their time and history.

You have always been and will be charged for not continuing with that wonderful guy (in everyone’s eyes). He’s so perfect, responsible, in love with you, handsome and fragrant, but what did you do? Dismissed the poor boy. He had all that, but something was missing, he needed to make you die of laughter, you didn’t fall in love.

But that’s enough to point the finger in your face and say that you don’t value what’s really good, and that you only make the wrong choice. Wait, wrong for who? Let’s not say your life is perfect, but it hasn’t gone so far as to be a big mistake either.

And if it’s not the love life of your dreams, they’ll say you should look for a better job, one that makes you happier, maybe change areas, who knows? No matter what the topic, they will always want to tell you what to do.

And what do you do with it? Listen, filter what makes or doesn’t make sense, but in the end, just follow your heart’s directions with a dash of your reason.

People will always have this mania, everyone charges, waits for the other to advance more and more, or keeps comparing what is better or worse.  You don’t need to prove anything to anyone, everyone sees what’s right, and they’ll always find reasons to say you didn’t do the right thing. Don’t put such a premium on it.

Not so you should feel pressured: achieve what you really want in your real time, only you know what’s best for you. It may not be the best choice, but surely you will learn a lot so that at the right time, you know how to act more coherently, and the result will be surprising.

To family and friends who are so concerned about the course of other people’s lives, there is a message: my life is very interesting, thank you!