How Is Your Self-esteem?

“Self-esteem is a person’s self-esteem in terms of their self-confidence and self-respect. Through it, we can face challenges and defend our interests.

It is formed in childhood, using the treatment given to the child as a key element, that is, if the child is always oppressed in relation to their attitudes, they will have low self-esteem, and if the child is always supported in relation to their attitudes , will have high self-esteem.”

Knowing this, we can observe ourselves a little better, analyze our actions with a more mature look over the years.

Low self-esteem is characteristic of insecure people. Let’s note that self-assured people, supported by their convictions, have high self-esteem. Insecurity, inadequacy, perfectionism, not feeling able to do things and the need to please are some personality traits that are shaken, oppressed, sad, boring, and they are always at the mercy of the opinion of others.

Far more than not being enough, these people seem to do little to like themselves. They don’t give themselves the support they often didn’t receive in remote, or even more recent, times.

There are so many things that further diminish these feelings, here are some of them: – Do you criticize yourself excessively? Does everything you do leave something to be desired in some way? – Do you feel a lot of guilt about yourself and others? – Are you affected by feelings of abandonment or rejection? – Are you a needy or frustrated person? – Are you envious of others for not feeling capable of accomplishing what others, in your opinion, do easily?

You may feel that way, but make no mistake, everything is relatively difficult for most people.  The ability to develop their own abilities is the starter that everyone is able to foster so that they become prone to perform the proposed functions in situations x or y.

Do you feel a lot of anger as a result of all this?
Have you ever stopped to think that we are all endowed with the same capabilities?

Some will really stand out, but can I assure you that these people, no matter how easy they are to undertake things, make extraordinary efforts so that they can stand out in some way?

I believe you can be a little more realistic by going deep into the heart and soul of all the issues that, by all of us, are somehow experienced. I believe that for your self-love to develop healthily, you will need homeopathic doses of self-knowledge.

It’s critical to find a way to look at you with kindness and fairness. It is necessary that, like everyone else, you end up trying a little harder so that you can be a good carer for yourself, caressing yourself with satin gloves, with the care and attention you surely deserve.

Try to make peace with what you see reflected in the mirror, because I believe that some people see there only what they mistakenly keep inside.

To maintain self-esteem, repeat every day:

I am worthy of receiving from myself and the people around me the love and care I did not receive in my childhood. From now on, I will look into my heart, keeping the firm certainty that, from today onwards, I will look upon myself with good eyes, and will do for myself whatever it takes so that I can simply be myself.

I will accept criticism, but I will strive to be fair to myself, not caring too much about the opinion coming from others in relation to me.

I will faithfully follow a correct path, based on the commitment to the responsibility that life is of unique importance, knowing that I am responsible for myself and for how I will place myself from now on in society.

I will always be careful with all forms of life on the planet, doing and feeling this with the strength of my soul and, as a result, I will be sure to be very lightly fulfilling the role that belongs to me alone.

Do this with strength and faith, and wait for the results. Believe that you deserve to be loved, but you need to love yourself first. You have value in life, you and everyone are special.

Don’t jump to the other peak, don’t overvalue yourself, don’t feel anymore, because you’re like everyone else. We are all aboard this ship that houses our soul, as well as everything that we bring as baggage.

Can’t be happy in love?

It happens to many of us. I haven’t succeeded either, but I assure you that the journey is long, that we must face our difficulties with our heads held high. Don’t stray too far from people  for fear that they might get too close to you.

Allow yourself to exchange good energies with others; be for them what has not yet been with you. Make things light around you, whether you are a good company, whoever you would like to be, the world is in need of empathetic and true people.

So, as the cliché suggests, “be the change you would like to see in the world”.  The world needs people who can soften the emotions that we carry within us.

Learn to love yourself before loving the other, learn to be happy with the rough stone that you carry in your heart.
We all need, in some way, to polish ourselves so that we can live and live together harmoniously.

It will be our responsibility to co-create a new world, which will be like the breaking of an egg, where we will be born and ready to finally share all our riches.

I speak of those riches that you keep so securely there within you. Try to open yourself to the news, there is a universe out there waiting for you. Go and don’t look back, go straight towards the light that is lovingly waiting for you.